i’m sorry if this writing is bad im exhausted. so i 26F knew my boyfriend 31M was married previously, and i was fine with it as we are getting older and i understand shit happens and that was before me. well today i was snooping on a court website (to find something unrelated for a friend) and i found that he was actually married before the marriage he told me about! not only that, i found he had a civil stalking case 10 years ago. it resulted in a mutual restraining order. i feel so weird and conflicted on what i should do going forward! how do i bring this up? i don’t want to talk to my family or friends about this yet until i can get my thoughts together. i really need advice. i want him to be honest and im trying to figure out if this is a dealbreaker! we were considering moving to another state together in a month! any help is greatly appreciated!!