I have a history of an ED but have been trying to gain muscle and have a PT. I have really bad body dysmorphia and I am in therapy for this. A lot of my family members say Im slim but I feel big a lot of the time.
My boyfriend knows this. He patted my leg and said ‘you have juicy calves’. The next day he patted me again and said ‘definitely try and lift heavier’.
I found this ‘juicy’ comment offensive and I feel like he is body shaming me and its made me spiral. Is he negging me and how can I call him out?