my wife is mad at me for spending over 42k in las Vegas, am I in the wrong, I don’t see why since that’s nothing since we make like alot more money then that, and I’m not sure why she’s mad, am I delusional, she’s like extremely mad even though I won the bet and I made like 62k on red in high stake?

basically I'm trying to see if I am in the wrong, I mean I work as an professional poker player, that's my job, well my side job/ hobby but I make a lot of money betting 40k plus money on several high stakes matches on red specifically in Biloxi/Gulfport and Vegas areas, she's mad, like really mad and might divorce me if I don't get "my act together" or whatever she means by that, like I need awnsers, am I in the wrong for betting over hundreds of thousands on an poker match, please tell me because I won like 62k from that, I won money, how can she be mad about that, overall I'm new to reddit and don't really use social media so It may take awhile for me to awnser questions and I have no idea what an tl;Dr means, I promise I am not an bot, and I will awnser questions or try to do my summary or whatever reddit works, I know it may look like it with how much I don't know