Sorry if this is a little long but I’m lost.
We’ve been together a little over a year (30 F and 30 M) and at first we had sex almost every time we saw each other(once a week). Over time I would spend more time at his place so we had sex less often since dating is more than just that haha.
A few months ago he confessed that he gets incredibly tired after sex and that the next day he always feels super groggy. According to him he’s always been like that so it’s nothing medical??
On top of that he doesn’t feel comfortable being always in the active „manly“ role since he’s often tired, it feels like a lot of pressure having to come up with ideas, being more active, getting hard, etc….and I get and respect that. But according to him he doesn’t really have any other erogenous zones, he’s not into butt stuff, basically nothing but his dick can get him off. So at this point it ends up with me being horny way more and him not being able to perform the way he wants to. And he tells me he’s okay with me masturbating when he’s there but I don’t think I can do that.
So I guess TLDR does anyone know of a way we can still feel intimate and connected when he’s in the mood to just be passive and I would like to get off?? Does anyone have a similar configuration and can encourage me?Because otherwise I’ll just masturbate at home I don’t know.