Hi, my girlfriend of 1.5 years (F20) lives in with me (M25) and we have been having some struggles lately and it seems like its getting bigger and bigger.
Thats why im turning to yall for advise 🙂
When I met her (when both playing in the same rock band) she was a recovering drug addict, and since I was so too many years ago, I decided to help her, we bonded and thats how the relationship got to a start.
She is very impulsive and has recently tattooed the side of her head, not caring about future work issues it might bring.
We ofcourse had some setbacks as when she brought drugs to my home, and used some. And when confronted she would lie about it.
After multiple arguments and fights she now is officially clean for 5 months.. she also wanted to quit smoking, but whenever I ask her about it, she gets upset…
Since like a month or 2 she is really touchy.. she wants attention constantly. Whenever I get home she is constantly begging for intercourse and for me to touch her and please her.
I admit that I have started touching her less lately, compared to last year, but i guess thats normal after a year in a relationship.
Edit: when I say no to intercourse or similar she sometimes says "just know there are plenty of guys who would wish I would do this to them or that do want me"
She has a lot of "junkie" friends in her college classes and at her work and she hangs out with a lot of them, mostly guys, but when I hang out with any girl colleague that is a big problem. I recently ran into someone I used to like and we had a great chat and she asked me if I wanted to catch up some time, I dont know what to do.
I do have feelings for her, and I love her.
I just dont know how big those feelings are anymore and I dont know what to do..
What would you do in this situation?