So whenever I rub my girlfriends clit I have a pretty easy time giving her orgasm and edging her a lot before I can make her finish but when she tells me to put finger her, I can tell she doesn’t like it much after a few minutes. I do make sure to start slow with one finger and then progress to two, but I want to know more about when people say do the come here motion or curl your fingers. I normally do the come here motion when i’m inside her but apparently you fingers should remained curled touching the rough bumpy top part of her vagina and you’re basically just fingering her like while you fingers are remaining curled rather than doing the come here motion ?
I know this is something that’s probably subjective ? And that I should be communicating with her and what she prefers, but we’ve just gotten together and idk i Guess i’d just like to know a bit more about fingering so that I can try new things and she can what she enjoys more.