I’ve been with my partner for three years officially. I would say he’s a pretty honest person but this situation (that seems small) is bothering me a lot and I don’t know if I’m justified or not. Last week during a talk he started a sentence with “i didn’t get to tell you what I seen the other day ……. Actually never mind” it was annoying only cause I hateeeeee when people do that (like why even say anything lol) but it was left at that. Fast forward to last night. I was on his phone sending myself pics we took on new years when I seen a notification from Facebook. His ex sent him a friend request like a week ago. No big deal. So I ask him “hey did you see the friend request you got?” (Not mentioning his ex yet) he responded with “no…. What are you taking about “ I was confused bc this man uses fb EVERYDAY. But I left it at that then I guess it was eating at him so five mins into the convo he goes “ are you talking about my ex ?” At that point I felt like he was playing games and I got a little upset. I know he knew what I was referring to but playing dumb. I asked why he did not block her or at least tell me. He said he didn’t think to . Anytime one of my exs even tries to follow me he blocks them for me or asks me to block them immediately. But when his does it it’s not communicated and nothing is done about it…. I know they haven’t spoke to each other at all but it’s the principle. This situation is making me second guess my trust in him to communicate these things with me. I know it’s a small scenario but he always hits me with the “I didn’t tell you to protect your feelings I know it would upset you” I keep asking myself if I’m overthinking this … Added info, He’s never been unfaithful just horrible at communicating but we’ve been working through it. We were in such a great spot relationship wise but it feels like this situation is eating at me.