We've got 2 kids who are still living with us while they commute to college. We don't mind letting them stay with us so they can get a cheap education, but lately the wife and I have been getting irritated that they always seem to be unintentionally cockblocking us.
Previously we both worked from home, so during the K-12 years both kids were gone consistent hours we were able to have regular alone time. Now it seems like only rarely do their college classes or their part time job schedules line up so they are both gone at the same time. Wife and I will sometimes have sex when they are home, but the wife gets worried about having to stay quiet. Maybe we are just over kids and ready for them to move out, but I'm not quite to the point of consigning them to a lifetime of student debt just so we can get busy.
I'm thinking I am just gonna start telling them to find another place to be for the evening a few times a month, but I'm not exactly sure how to frame it. I don't really want to traumatize them by explaining why we need 6 hours alone to skinny dip, get drunk, and then have sex all over the house. Wondering if anyone else has gone through this and has any pointers.