My girlfriend asked me if there was something we Never tried that is far diffrent from usual Sex but still would give me pleasure. So I told her that she could masage my dick in a non sexual way just with her hands. No strong or fast strokes really just like you would Massage any other bodypart. It felt great and After I asked her if there is something similar I could do for her but she couldnt think of anything. I know that there are a lot of creative people out there and maybe even some women can share how they experienced pleasure before with there Partner that is far diffrent from usual practise.