So I have this one fantasy that my husband finds “weird” , and I don’t think it is. It’s me touching myself in bed, him standing/sitting in the corner of the room watching me do it. Either right before or right after I cum, he comes and fucks the hell out of me to make me cum/cum again. The idea of it drives me nuts, but I can’t do it because He thinks that’s weird.
Is that really that bad?
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It’s honestly weird that your husband doesn’t think watching you masturbate before banging the hell out of you is hot. And I’ll stand by that.
That’s actually pretty damn hot. Sorry he is being a stick in the mud
Your husband sounds VERY vanilla. Your fantasy is hot!!
It’s not weird. Your husband might lack flair & imagination.
Your husband is weird.
Some people are into voyeurism, and some people aren’t. People who aren’t can be *very* turned off by it, for whatever reason. It’s one thing to catch a glimpse of someone, but intentionally watching them is too much for some people.
And it may be that your husband isn’t actually adverse to watching you…he just is worried that you’d ask to watch *him* masturbate in return. Who knows? Him calling it “weird” isn’t really helpful. It would be nice to know which part seems weird to him.
To me, this sounds delicious. I would think it would be a turn-on to watch my wife touch herself, and fuck her after she cums. Even if I’d rather be involved from the beginning, this is a relatively harmless fantasy, and easy to fulfill.
The way it reads, it’s very innocuous, but while my objection would be based on ‘thats boring ‘. There may be something to this for him. If you can get him to express his feelings in the matter, that would be a lot more helpful than a bunch of morons (like me) calling your hubs ‘supervanillia’.
I don’t think it’s weird, it kinda he’ll watch you in sneaky and after a while he can’t resist then join you. It’s like roleplay.
It’s a damn shame because he is missing out.
I find this idea hot as hell. It isn’t weird at all.
What’s not to like about this? Maybe it was how or when you presented it to him? Did you share with him and his parents or in a church during his grandmother’s funeral?
He is weird, I love watching my wife masturbating and enjoying herself and I can’t understand anyone who wouldn’t like watching their partner.
Super hot. I’d love for my asexual/frigid wife to have fantasies like that.
What’s weird about that though?
Yep. To be honest, the fact he doesn’t find this erotic is a bit odd but each to thier own.
My Amazing SO has had me handcuffed naked to a chair at the end of the bed before wound me up to the point of distraction with her hands and tongue and then just walked away and laid back on the bed right in front of me using a dildo on herself untill she comes watching my cock throb and twitch like crazy…She then leans forward and unfastens just one handcuff leaving me to frantically pull the other one off before launching myself at her and fucking her like a man possessed..
It’s a lot of fun..
I think your husband ‘may’ be mistakingly seeing this as a bit of a cuckhold / degradation situation which it isn’t.… it’s important to point out to him that the aim is to turn you both on to increase the desire when you do finally get down to it… you are not depriving him.. simply delaying..
Does he normally get turned on by the thought or sight of you playing with yourself.? If not, then this may also be part of the issue..
It’s ok that your husband isn’t into your fantasy. Everybody is different. That said, I’ve literally fantasized before about being the man in this scenario, so it sounds pretty hot to me!
Definitely not weird.. I love seeing my partner pleasing themselves.. Then for them to ask me to finish them off.. Oh my god, yes please..
I would talk to him. Ask him what gets him aroused… then tell him how much you like your thing … but also listen to his reasoning why he isn’t interested . That’s unfortunate that he is reclusive and prude. I am just the opposite. If you were my wife…. I would not mind watching you masturbate one bit and would even let you fuck with a buddy of mine to finish it off. Lol.
That is extremely hot and sexy. I’ve done this with past partners and the O’s they’ve had is incredible
Ahhh no. Your husband is lame. It should be a huge turn on.
Nope I would love to watch my partner do that.
Not at all. I’ve had this fantasy too and it’s pretty tame compared to the other shit I fantasize and ask of my husband. Lol he was okay with this.
Damn I’m a gross freak. This fantasy is hot but is vanilla to me 😭
I love it when my wife plays with herself so hot going after she has cum hard so good and she cum almost instantly as I enter
If your husband was a spice, he would be flour.
I’m not sure why he thinks it’s weird, I love watching my wife masturbate and she enjoys me watching. I also like her watching me masturbating too
There are people who want to be peed on.
Absolutely nothing weird about it. Is he super vanilla?
Bad? Pffftt, if my wife suggested this then let’s pour some drink to loosen up and count me in.
Yes yes yes your fantasy is HOT.
HUBBY needs to try to get it together
If I were your husband I would think that is hot as fuck and would definitely want you to live the fantasy….he is weird not to be super turned on by it.
It’s also exactly my fantasy but my wife straightly refused to do that.
Does this man have a pulse?!?
Um, I would volunteer for that all day
On the whole that seems pretty tame but also quite hot.
You’re inviting him to watch you. To learn how you touch yourself. Then to ravish you.
It never ceases to amaze me how men don’t understand the benefits of indulging their lover’s fantasies.
That’s a dream scenario. I don’t understand why he would think that
Sounds pretty hot to me. We do something very similar. Sounds like you need to have an open and honest discussion about sex and fantasies.
That is not WEIRD AT ALL!!it sounds HOT from both prospectives. I think your husband doesn’t understand the point of your fantasy
Why is that weird for him? Sounds like a fun ass time tbh lol