Hi, before I come to the point where I need help, here is a brief context,
CONTEXT
PHASE 1
Back in 2020, the great corona era, I got fever. I wanted to just check if I had it or not, I went to a hospital for the checkup, I was positive and they didn't let me leave. I was stuck there in hospital for 10 days.
A beautiful doctor called on my phone on the first day. Asking if I got everything I needed (like toothbrush, toothpaste, soap, etc). I couldn't meet her, but I felt a connection.
We continued talking after I was released from the hospital. I was already in love with her. I hinted my feelings to her, she understood it very well, but due to responsibilities and all she ignored her own feelings.
We were in touch, talked ocassionally, hinted our feelings to each other without being obvious.
PHASE 2
She got married (forced by her mother) to some doctor in mid 2022. I was devastated by the news, but wished all the best for her. She is a nice and simple girl. She deserves all the happiness in the world.
In 2023, I was living in another city, I got a call from her at 2AM, for the first 20 minutes she cried, then told me that she found out his husband is cheating, and upon confronting him, he hit her, ever with slippers.
In 2024, she finally told me how much she loves me since the very beginning. I also didn't hold my emotions back.
In 2025, we finally decided to get along romantically, even with her being married to a piece of shit. She doesn't care if he finds out.
THIS IS THE PART WHERE I NEED HELP
I wanted to know if anyone else has gone through a similar situation?
Also, I know it is wrong what we are doing, but it doesn't seem wrong. Filing for a divorce is very critical here, especially in her community.
I love her, I love her very much, after getting along with her, it kills me to acknowledge the fact that she is with someone else, that too a piece of shit who hits her.
What steps should we take here? What is the to-do list to end up together without any problems?