I need opinions

So I'm 29 f married to 43 m been married a year been together almost 5 years in my marriage is over my husband doesn't want to help with anything cleaning cooking paying bills he gets checks and does doordash I'm a direct support person so I'm away from home anywhere from 40 to 98 hours weekly

we had to move in with him mom when her husband passed away because she is motorized wheel chair bound since before we moved in we haven't gone on dates he doesn't post me he doesn't check on me at all he doesn't kiss me we don't have sex even on our honeymoon I wore lingerie

I got him off then he says he's tired I am paying everything in the marriage cat food cat litter car bill car insurance my insurance groceries my friends and family say he's using me for my money they don't like him to me it feels like I'm taking care of one of my clients

I've told him multiple times to help me with anything he says he will but weeks go bye and nothing happens we don't do anything he sits in the living room playing his PlayStation portal which is fine I'm a hardcore gamer as well I do that when I get off work to unwind

I've brought this up to him and I've caught him multiple times looking at breasts online and told him I'm not comfortable he says he'll stop then 2-3 days later he's back at it he says I can't help it could I have some opinions