I'm surrounded by my kids and husband, but I feel so alone. I feel like no one understands me, and I don't know who my husband is anymore.
I'm 34(f) and he's 36. We've been together for 13 years. We were happy once, and I don't know what happened. I don't know if he's happy. He's completely emotionally unavailable, there's no communication other than daily things needed for the kids.
At work, he's the funny one. At home, it's like he doesn't have a personality. Like he's miserable. But he's denied he's miserable, he always brushes me off when I bring this up.
We're in therapy and I know he's trying. I just don't know if he can ever change or grow. He refuses to see his faults.
Im so angry after all the years of emotional neglect and minimizing my feelings and judgement about my character. It's like I can't see anything good in him anymore, even though I know he is good in many ways.
Is there any coming back from this? I'm tired of feeling miserable