One of my very lovely friends has just received the news that he has an extremely aggressive and rare cancer and his medical care has now switched to ‘making him comfortable’. His wife has said they are feeling better knowing there are no avenues left to fight and that they simply must enjoy the time they have left together. I don’t know if it’s going to be weeks or months but it’s an absolute bastard and an awful tragedy. He has two young children and I am hugely struggling knowing he’s not going to see them grow up / they’re going to grow up without him. I am heartbroken but I’m wondering if anyone has any experience to share to give me an insight in to how my friend himself might be feeling. (I don’t want to ask him because he’s struggling to be on his phone / keep up with all the well wishes and I don’t want to burden him) Have you had a terminal cancer diagnosis? Or been with someone who has? I’m so sorry and also let me know if you have any wisdom to share.