My boyfriend (m27) told me (f27) he loved me after a month and a half of dating. He asked me to be his girlfriend 2 weeks after the first date and I said I want to wait more. The next week I agreed to be his girlfriend. On New Year’s Eve we had many drinks at a friends party and he said “now you have to say the next thing first.” And I was like “what?” I asked him multiple times to speak plainly because I don’t know what he means. At new years he said “I love you.” I said it back because of how pressured I felt. To deny him twice would have made me feel so uncomfortable. He said it to me again this morning that he loves me.
He has only been in relationships that last no less than 2 months and hasn’t been with anyone seriously in 4 years. I do think there is some immaturity or lack of experience on his end. My longest relationship has been 4 years and I’ve had about 5 long term relationships since age 15.
I want to take back what I said to him and want to wait longer. He does not know me on a deep enough level imo to say this to me and I think a deeper convo needs to be had.
🚩 he told me usually girls break up with him a month after he says this, so I assume he has said this to the other short relationships just as fast.