When we first met, my husband told me that he was a recovering addict that went to rehab and was clean for years. Earlier in our relationship he relapsed and cheated on me with numerous women for about a month that he was actively getting high. He went again to rehab. When he cheated on me he was living with me. Since then I don’t believe he has cheated, and we have gotten married. However, now every-time his phone rings or I call him and he doesn’t answer, my mind goes to that time period of cheating. What should I do to get past this?