I went on a 3 day staycation with three girlfriends.
One of them, after a long day of activities, one of which was us dancing in a smoky club with random people, decided she's not going to shower because her hair is straightened. She went home with a guy she met at the club and still didn't shower the next day.
I told her she could just tie it up because not bathing after being in a club especially "is a bit wild" (my exact words), she said she felt like I was judging her and now she's upset. I told her my intention wasn't to offend her but she's still upset.
I'm leaving the staycation one day early because things are really tense even though I apologized
In my mind, I stand by what I said though. When I got back from the club, I reeked of cigarettes, alcohol and sweat. I had people, while talking over the music, spit on my face multiple times. So to me, IT IS gross! I didn't say that to her obviously. I said "that's wild".
I'm not sure what to do now to save this? especially since I've apologized.