Bc of issues with my birth control we’ve needed to start using condoms instead. It’s a brand new box 36ct and we’ve at the most used 5. Today while rummaging through the bedside drawer I discovered there was 19 left. Math isn’t mathing. I’m unsure of what to do now. Part of me wants to talk to him, ask him, confront him, and risk him getting defensive and gaslight me. The other part wants to get a tracker for his car. We’ve had issues in the past where Ive felt things were off and he always managed to explain them away or gaslight me. The thoughts of him cheating also come from our less than active sex life, always saying I’m tired, I have a headache, I have a stomach ache, my back hurts. I try to believe him but most times they feel like excuses. Is there a 3rd option to how to go about this? Side note we do have a 16 year old son I just don’t feel somehow he has them.