I had access to his phone:
He followed her on insta in 2023, but she ghosted him the day of the date. 1 year later in 2024 they dated 1 time but she did it again (she found out he has me & our 2 kids). In 2025 she reconnected with him again but this time they dated 3 times. They had foreplay according to the texts, but no sex.
(Saw them discussing it in the messages)
Sidenote: my husband stayed in his homecountry & I moved back to my homecity (next to his country) 3 years ago when our little boy was born because none of us wanted to move to the other's country. Reason: had my education here to finish
Back to story: then the girl went abroad now in december & he called her 3 times in those 3 weeks.
Even when it was Christmas day.
He doesnt know I know
On NYE he texted her at 8 am to wish her a happy new year.
And now he took us (our family) abroad for a week to Italy & I saw he still talks with her, sent her even photos of the trip.
He is totally normal with us tho on vacation tho & we had sex too.
Im afraid he will leave us for her, but a bit confused because he is affectionate with us on vacay 🙁
I want to confront him after we get home (dont want to disturb the kids while its the holidays)
But I hope its only a temporary feeling in him.
What do u think?