I've been long distance with my girlfriend since March of this year, and we have only been with eachother in person about 2 times since.
She generally isn't a very sexual person, as I feel like I need to relieve myself at least once per day to feel normal.
I've already brought up before how intimacy is my love language, and she agreed that she has just been stressed lately and will try harder to fulfill my needs.
Things were going well before I came to her house, but now that I'm here, she is rejecting my initiation 80% of the time, saying how she's too tired every time, leaving me to just go to sleep or jerk off alone.
Outside of this, we get along great and spend tons of time together. I make my best effort to go and do the things she enjoys such as dates etc, and try to take interest in the things she likes to do.
It sucks though because even after we go out for a date and I spend what I'd consider a ton of money on the things she likes to do, I'm met with no reciprocation. I understand I'm not entitled to sex or anything, but I'd be lying if I said it didn't feel terrible.
I honestly don't know what I should do from here. The relationship is great, but there's no way I can go on only having sex 3-4 times per month.
TL;DR : Great relationship, but girlfriend rejdcts initiation 80% of the time, claiming she's tired. Things improved briefly after talking, then reverted once we were together in person. I feel rejected and can’t see myself being happy with sex only a few times a month.