Guys I really love this girl. But as the title suggests she doesn't like me eating her out or fingering her. She gets turned off and dry the second I try to touch her down there or eat her out.
And it's not a me problem. In all her past relationships she's been like this. She just wants to makeout and jump straight to penetration.
The problem is that just by penetrating it takes a really long time for her to orgasm and most of the time I cannot last that long(30mins of continuous penetration atleast). I can't do it for that long, and if I stop and do it, she gets out of the zone. With other girls I never had a problem. I could do all sorts of stuff to make them orgasm even before penetrating and after. But she just doesn't want oral or me rubbing her clit or fingering her. And she been like this in all her past relationships and it's one of the reasons of her previous breakup. She says it okay if she doesn't finish, and always is ready to have sex but it feels wrong and I feel disappointed in myself.
We have tried everything but nothing works. I really love her but sex feels incomplete. How do I fix it or get better ?