Hello me, 28F and my spouse, 29M have been married for almost 4 years now and dated for 1 year prior. We rushed marriage due to twin pregnancy and now, a few years later it just feels like all the love is gone and we are just existing. We rarely do dates anymore. Everything romantic wise just feels forced or robotic on both ends. Our sex life is still great despite all this but I want to enjoy his company again without just existing near him. We both work full time jobs and game together nearly everyday once twins go to bed for about an hour but it has become so dull. We used to communicate so well but now it seems neither of us has much to say. Anytime we do go on a date, he never seems to enjoy it so I've practically given up. I know he still loves me and it would cause great financial strain on us both if we were to separate but I just don't know what else to do or try and it doesn't seem right to stay just so life is slightly easier even if its not enjoyable just monotonous. I just dont feel it anymore for him and there's so many little things that just keep making it worse.
TL:DR 28F and 29M rush marriage of 4 years due to twin pregnancy. Love seems to be dead but not sex life.
Does it seem right to continue the marriage for kids sake or separate for a healthier life for all of us?
Any advice is appreciated!!!