hii this is kinda just a throwaway but me and my bf are pretty active sexually and im scared to tell him i want more kinky and rougher(?) sex. not cus i think he’ll judge (well a little that) but also cus idk what i’m really into. i’ve always had the fantasy of him just being in complete control of me and being like a pet almost? if that makes sense. but idk how to bring that up. i love being tied up and recently we tried that for the first time and he seemed very happy and comfortable that it made me super excited. i wanna do other things like roleplaying, bondage, etc. i just don’t know how to say it. i love when he pulls my hair or smacks my butt and i feel like he definitely understands how to do that but it took a while and so im kinda just curious about others kinks they find interesting or how to have this conversation with him.
thank you all!