So I broke up with my ex (19F) a while back. It was very messy and confusing with a lot of issues on both our ends. After everything got sorted out, we are on no contract and I have seen or heard from her in a while (close to a year, everyone went to college). I was hanging out with some of my good friends and one of them started to show me some reels on insta. When he did, a few messages from my ex popped up. He quickly tried to hide it and the rest of the time he was very careful about his insta, messages and snap when before he was very open with it. He was not close with my ex during our relationship (at least to my knowledge) and they never did anything together unless it was with me.
I didn’t bring it up because it was a gathering with a lot of friends and I didn’t want to make it awkward but now I’m just torn.
See my ex was a complicated person but she was also very innocent. When we broke up, it took me a while to stop myself from worrying for her, because I know what someone people are like. My friend went to college and turned into those kind of people I wouldn’t want her to mess around with. I’m also very hurt that if they are texting as friend he wouldn’t say anything. I am still friends with lots of her close friends so I really wouldn’t have an issue with it besides the fact he is trying to hide it from me.
I’m worried, confused and angry and anxious
Should I text him and ask? Should I break no contact? Idk what to do
Please help
TL;DR: My close friend(19M) is texting and messaging my long time ex (19F) who I had a messy break up with and it trying to hide that he is doing it. I am friends with people who are still close to her so messaging and texting isn’t weird, him hiding the fact he is worried me. He is a lowk a fboy and I’m worried and hurt and idk