I 22m have been with my gf 21f for a year now and me and her have been running into some issues. I feel like I’m walking on egg shells around this girl. She gets upset at me for the smallest things. Every time she does get upset at me she will give me the silent treatment and not tell me what I even did to upset her most of the time. When I notice that she is visibly upset I will ask her if anything is wrong, and she will tell me she is “fine” with the worlds biggest attitude, and to stop asking her because it’s annoying when I just wanna know if I did anything to upset her or if something else did. Anyways let me give you guys an example. 2 days ago we were driving back from a road trip and on the way back I was doing 5mph over the limit. She got very quiet ( huge indication of her being upset), and I could see in her face she was not happy. She decided to go on a rant after I asked her if she was okay how much should not be speeding no matter what even though I have seen her speed multiple occasions. Another example, we were in a store and I simply put my arm around her to show affection, and this simple action caused her to rant and tell me how clingy I’m being and how it feels like I’m suffocating her…
I just feel like I breathe wrong around her and she will get upset over that. I’m not sure why she treats me like this when I’m always showering her with love and affection and respect.
I go out of my way to do so many things to make her happy but I’m not sure why she does this any advice?
TL;DR to summarize this post basically my gf(21f) makes me feel like that I(22m) am walking on egg shells right now I’m afraid to even breathe next to her sometimes I just want some advice on how I can bring this up to her