I (24F) and my boyfriend (28M) have been dating for about 2 years now, but it’s gotten to a point where i genuinely hate having sex with him. Which sucks to say bc I used to enjoy it. The problem comes from my boyfriend’s impulsive touching. And I don’t mean rubbing my arm or kissing my face, no, I mean immediately going into my shirt and caressing my nipple/tit. It’s completely random and NON STOP. I will literally get home from work, only two steps in the door and instead of greeting me with a hug or kiss he’s greets me with his hand down my shirt. I will start talking about my day and he reaches his hand down my shirt. I’ll move his hand and instead of not touching me, he moves his hand to the other tit 🙃. I’ll move his hand AGAIN, and he will stop for like 2-3 minutes and his hand is back down my shirt. I will be cooking dinner and comes in and reaches his hand down my shirt. I’ll be washing the dishes and reaches his hand down my shirt. I’ll literally just be chilling watching tv and he reaches his damn hand down my shirt, even when I’m driving he does that too. It’s so annoying 😭 the problem is when we first got together I told him the easiest way to get me horny is to caress my nipples after a quick make out session. So he still tries to do that to “get me in the mood” but I think at this point him touching my nipples overstimulates me so much I get the opposite of turned on. I literally cannot get wet anymore and body tenses up. I’ve talked to him about this before and told him to stop touching my titties so much and because it’s affecting my ability to even get turned on and his response is “sorry I can’t help it” and has *tried* to stop but that effort is only like 2 days long and it goes back to square one. Is it normal for your partner to touch you THIS MUCH?!?! I dated a guy before him and he touched me but NOT like my current boyfriend does. It’s so irritating and frustrating and I don’t know what to do at this point.
Edit: the easiest way I can explain the impulsiveness, is I feel like a human fidget spinner