Me (20M) and my partner (18F) have been in a relationship for close to 6 months. At first, our sex life was great and very consistent however I guess after this ‘honeymoon phase’ it’s died down in a strange way. She often encourages me to help her finish, but then rolls over and doesn’t reciprocate often excusing it for tiredness or something similar, she makes the same excuses for sex; or promises it but never goes through with it.
It got kind of frustrating for me, so I ended up sitting her down and telling her how this makes me feel. She understood, and actually helped me finish too in an experience we both enjoyed. That was a one off though, and ever since immediately fell back into old habits, like she doesn’t care about how I feel or my needs being met. Do I approach this the same, or is there anything different I could do to hopefully improve this situation.
TLDR: Girlfriend stopped caring for my sexual needs, doesn’t reciprocate anything I give and doesn’t seem to be changing despite talks about my feelings.