my boyfriend (M21) and i (F20) have been together for four months. i am a person who is absolutely full of love, so i fell quite quickly, and we told each other very early on that we loved each other. last night he revealed to me that he’s unsure whether or not he loves me. this stung (of course) because we’ve been telling each other how much we love one another every day since we first said it. i know it’s still very early in the relationship, and i knew when i first told him how i felt that there was a chance he wouldnt love me back, and i was ready for that. but now it feels like that’s been ripped away. i got very comfortable and used to the idea that my boyfriend was on the same page as me feelings-wise.
he says he’s unsure how he feels. he says he loves me as a person but doesnt know if he’s in love with me. where do we go from here? we’re going to have a big conversation about everything tomorrow. i have so many questions for him. is he even attracted to me? does he just see me as a friend? are there any romantic feelings at all? has everything he’s said been a lie this whole time?
i dont want us to break up. im hurt of course but i understand it’s still very early in the relationship. should i just sit on my hands and wait for him to make up his mind? or should he know by now and am i wasting my time?
i’m inexperienced in relationships, and i tend to be naive and too hopeful, but i know i’m absolutely enamoured by him.
tl;dr: my boyfriend just revealed to me he isnt in love with me. it’s still very early in our relationship but im unsure of where to go from here. advice?