I (M35) married 8 years to (F41) recently started using this simple website that has been helpful in reminding me to do little things for my partner without them asking for it first. The suggestions are usually free like writing a note on their water bottle or making them breakfast. Just easy things that you can do each week to bring a smile to their face. Thought you all might find it useful –
Tiny nudges dot com
Full transparency my brother in law made it and I think it’s actually a cool little tool. Here are some more words to get to the 500 limit.
TL;DR – a website that gives you ideas for a good relationship