My boyfriend is in his 30s while I’m mid 20s. He used to be very obsessed with me, showering me with compliments, taking initiative to calling a lot, and he would also take initiative to hang out a lot. It was like that for a year. Now he’s more distant. When we meet he’s very kind. But when we’re not together he doesn’t call, he actually dismisses my calls. He doesn’t text much, and he’s overall very distant. It’s confusing cause he seems very much in love with me when we actually meet. But other than that I get an equivalent to no attention from him. It’s been like this for a month and I’ve asked him if something has happened or if something is wrong, he says no. Only excuse he’s got is that he’s busy with his daughter (he has a kid with another woman) but how come you’re suddenly so busy, I think..
It feels like he’s taking me for granted, and he doesn’t seem scared to loose me. Even tho I have told him that the way he acts is making the relationship weaker.
I’ve tried to give him more attention and be sweet and caring when we meet. He says he enjoys hanging out with me and all. But something is definitely off.
what should I do to change this?
TL;DR my boyfriend is not giving me any attention besides from when we meet. How can I make him appreciate me more?