Guys I lost my mind. I (28F) asked my fwb (29M) of four months out on a date after we got a bit drunk and confessed things to each other the night before. That night he was pitching himself as a romantic option and said he could be my “best worst case scenario” for a partner and “if you haven’t met someone in a year we should be together” blah blah. He even said our mutual friend is confused why he hasn’t tried to “make me his girl if he likes me this much.” I’ve had a little crush on him but wouldn’t have acted on it, but each time we hang out now for the last month he says more things like this so it opened my mind up to seeing what a date would be like.
Anyway he called me the following night inviting me to go with him to a game night and I said I couldn’t go but asked if he’d want to get dinner sometime. He said “that’d be cool” 💀 and then said he was really drunk the night before and his memory was spotty. He later asked me “what made you think to ask me that?” 😭 and I said “oh.. we were talking about how we vibe really well and that it could be – ” and he goes “oh a good match” and I said “yeah, so I was curious what us going on a date would be like… but since you don’t remember now this feels a bit random so we don’t have to.” And he said again (to kill me again) “no that’s cool” 💀. So I said “okaaay” and we switched the subject and talked for a bit longer and hung up.
I must have been on drugs but now I completely regret it 😭 Idk what to do now!