Me (F23) and him (M23) have been together for 5 years.
I was using my boyfriend’s phone to find a recipe, and while I usually wouldn’t snoop I happened to see he had HUD, Tinder, and Down all on his phone. I was immediately uncomfortable, so I decided to make my own HUD profile to see if I can find him. His profile states he is looking for “friends with benefits” and “looking to connect with someone on a deeper level both physically and emotionally”, which has just devastated me. He constantly tells me he loves me and shows it daily. I have no idea why the fuck he’d be on these apps if that were true. We do have communication problems on my part, be he assures me multiple times that he loves me in spite of those.
I want to confront him of course, but we are at his parents house on vacation. I’m stuck here for 5 more days basically, but I can feel the anxiety building in my chest. I don’t know if I can pretend for that long. I don’t know what to even do. I just feel this sinking feeling in my chest.
I don’t have anyone to talk to about this, so I’d appreciate any advice.
TLDR; he’s on tinder and HUD, I need to confront him but we are at his parents house for another week. What should I do?