Hey all I’m not sure what to do anymore. I’ve been married for a year almost 2 in June. We had our first baby three years ago and we are expecting our second in March. However, anytime my husband and I get into a disagreement all respect goes out the window for me literally anyone like it. It’s the same for everyone like he gets so angry with me and he says terrible things mean things though it’s not physical it’s just words however it still hurts just as much as it would if he did hit me anytime I mention getting divorced he just says OK like he doesn’t care and I feel like I’m the person holding our marriage together and I don’t really know what to do or how to handle it. It is my first marriage and I am only 29 so I’m not sure what the next step should be here or could be. I just wanna feel like important like I know that I shouldn’t want him to like beg me, but it would feel nice for him to at least be like hey I don’t want to get divorced. I want us to work this out but steady just says OK and then that he doesn’t care and I don’t know. I don’t really know. I just need some advice. Anything is helpful.. I also want to add that we aren’t very sexual with one another like it only happens like maybe 1 to 2 times a month if that and it has decreased significantly more since I’ve been pregnant, but it has always been this way even when I’m not pregnant we’ve been together for six years now so I’m not sure if that is also like a red flag but yeah yeah he said he just tends to lose his cool a lot and I don’t really know why I’ll take any advice you all can give..


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