Hi all,
A little background, we have currently been in a relationship for 2.5 years and live separately.
My GF has her own apartment, tonight i was supposed to sleep at her place.
There have been some talks in the past about previous small aspects of our relationship we or she has some irritations about. But nothing big. But we can always talk very openly and good about it.
No heated arguments of fights.
Got to her place, she wanted to talk. In my opinion it was a good talk. Not heated, but calm and listening to each other. Even some jokes and smiles.
About 01.00 in the morning (still talking in the living room ~1.5/2 hours) she told me she wishes to not sleep together tonight what kind of was a surprise to me.
I told her: “okay, no problem”. I also asked why, did not get a really clear answer.
A few moments later, due the time and work the next morning i said; “oh well, ill go then”. Got my glass, put it in the kitchen, put on my shoes, got my bag and asked her; “are you sure?” She said yes, i said okay and left and locked the door, got in my car and drove home.
My question: What is next? Wait it out (no contact on my side and give her space? Or seek contact tomorrow?
Thanks in advance!