Wife has shown concerns of me not going down on her and as much i care about pleasing her, I start thinking about any potential risks with it and that has become a roadblock for me.
I did mention to her though that I might possibly do right after she showers but then she became emotional and was like that am I dirty otherwise? Also that she won’t get as wet easily etc
Also I never even told or requested her to give me a BJ mainly because I’m concerned about hygiene; I let her do it once I’m clean.
Realistically, what are the risks associated with it? And does it mostly involve using tongue?