i’ve been in a relationship for all of my 20s. i’m now 32 and in a big city, dating for the first time. i’ve been in the dating world for like 2 years now.
over the summer, i had what i thought was a really great connection with someone. after about two months, we slept together and he ended things with me the next day. we had a brutally honest conversation about it, and it came down to he just never liked me and it was more about the experience.
this kind of changed my perception on dating, and as much as i don’t want to be a pessimist, i feel like everyone only sees me as an object and no one i’ve met in these past two years is actually trying to get to know me…
i don’t know if it’s just like this living in a big city where it’s more superficial.
i just went on a great first date and we had such good conversation, he just text me and said he can’t wait to blow my back out. what the hell lol