I want to take my wife out to dinner and go to a sex shop, because I want to try something new for us with the kids sort of slowing down our sex lives and my own fantasies.. but I dont know where to start. I know my wife will be sort of open to a few things, but thats because a) she's a bit open minded and b) she hates making decisions. Are there sex toys to recommend for beginners? I was thinking clit stimulation or an anal plug(but I know nothing about… are there sizes?) Just want to hear what people normally try
I guess i should edit this early and say im a bit hesitant because I dont want her to be able to be completely independent from me, sexually, although feels weird to say
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The clit suction toys are very good! High recommended and also they are easy to use whilst fucking too 😜
Try a magic wand. That will blow her mind. Better yet, blindfold her while playing with her.
If you’re near a big city, try to find a small shop that’s not Adam & Eve, etc. They tend to carry better toys and give great advice!
Good ole cock ring. My hubby and I love that one. Feels good for him, feels even better for me when I’m on top and my husband gets enjoyment out of that as well!!!
Even just a bullet vibrator plus your oral stimulation is the bestt, small tapered anal plugs let her go at her pace with those or you’ll ruin anal quick. Sounds fun, you’re on the right track having an open mind yourself!
Just make sure you have a few hundred bucks on you. The good quality toys are expensive!
Two basics, glass dildo and clit vibrator
she can use by herself as and might kickstart more action form you (she will want the real thing more). you take the kids out and she has time by herself or you can use together when you can. Win/win
Buy once, cry once.
Get a proper Magic Wand and don’t look back. Quality really does make a difference in sex toys, especially when you want to guarantee body-safe materials
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A clit sucking toy like this:
https://www.satisfyer.com/de/satisfyer-pro-2-generation-3-connect-app
A small vibrator.
Butt plugs only if she’s open to try butt play. If yes, a small butt plug (maybe soft silicone) with a T-shaped base, the plugs with round bases are often unsafe and uncomfortable to wear. And water based lube!!!
https://www.sinful.co.uk/p/baseks-beginner-butt-plug-training-set/1021260
Focus on the best ‘tools’ or toys that are recommended for getting women off. If you want to sell ‘adventure’ to your partner, put her needs and desires first. You know it makes sense.
And there are some very good toys for women nowadays, not just vibes or rabbits but suckers and ‘fingers’ and combinations thereof.
There are sex machines too for maybe the ultimate experience but that is probably too off the deep end for now.
And accept that you may waste money finding what works for her. It’s worth the investment.
PS. Look at https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/ . Customers there leave reviews of what they use and there is a user community on the site.