I'm 22 years old Male.. This is my first time ever being in a relationship and this girl is moving pretty fast with me. Now I'm very comfortable with a lot, and don't feel like insanely uncomfortable, but last night she asked if she could take my " " out, and suck it. I didn't say no, and she did, but she just kept saying how she wants to put it in/ride it so bad.
I don't know why but I'm just so scared of STI/STD/having a kid. I DO NOT want a kid right now so I've been extremely cautious with her. We've been hanging out 6 times now, and at least 3 of these times have been what I described or similar.
She is very warm with it and fair to me given my inexperience (she is 23). But I don't know how to go about like talking about this. Do I tell her I want to get tests before doing anything? I'm even scared with a condom. But if I wasn't holding back she'd 100% just do it without a condom I feel like based on her hornyness.
She is very respectful and hasn't done anything I didn't wanna do. I'm just like scared I don't know lol. I don't wanna regret anything.
She also wanted me to " " into her mouth. I don't know why but I don't like that idea. I don't wanna like degrade her as a person and do that just doesn't feel right.