My boyfriend (21 M) and I (21 F) have been together for around a year now. We’re temporarily long distance because he’s in Japan for a year abroad. I’m visiting him over Christmas and New Year’s. Before I went to sleep, I felt the need to go through his phone (I know, I shouldn’t have).
I discovered that he had been messaging numerous girls. He got one girl’s instagram and said she was “really cute” after looking at her ig profile. He told another that he bets she’s got a big ass. There was also a conversation with a third girl where he stated that he wasn’t looking for anything long-term (relationship-wise) in Japan because he wasn’t going to be there for long.
I have no idea what to do, I’m in complete shock. My flight’s not for another week or so and I have assignments due that I should be focusing on. I really thought I was going to marry him. I’m not sure if I should confront him or just pretend everything’s okay?