Every so often, I see someone that strongly resembles my best friend that passed away. Once or twice, I’ve had a strong urge to mention it but figure it’s predominantly a self-fulfilling gesture and might make them uncomfortable. However, I’ve seen dramatic tear-jerking vids online of people expressing this and it being a special moment so maybe it is okay? I personally would be touched if someone told me but then again I’m a person familiar with grief.
If I did, it would be casual. I’d just warmly say with a smile, “hey, y’know, you really resemble my best friend who passed away. Sorry if that’s odd to mention but it just made me smile.”
Everyone’s different but what’s the general consensus?