I’m struggling here now, partner has been out of work from decorating for some 3 months.
I live with her and her 3 boys, 14, 19, 24. Been together 7.5 years.
The adult boys contribute nothing., one is unemployed, I brought this up and agreed 10% of household bills from them, I had to really push this and yet to see if this happens.
I’ve been paying all bills, food, and most of partners bills also, credit card, vehicle tax and insurance, as well as my own vehicle costs, my vehicle has just had a repair bill of £4k.
Am I a complete fool or is this sometimes what just needs to happen when sh*t gets tough?