I need help … I’m devastated, I’m a man, 40y old, and I recently found out my wife of 8 yrs propositioned another man at our company Christmas party to go up to a room at a hotel to have sex and grabbed his junk. I confronted her about it and confirmed it happened because the man threatened to goto HR ( we both work at the same company ) but we’re both friends ( me and the guy she tried to hook up with ) and he wanted to give me the decency of knowing the truth before he went to HR , he was never going to do anything .
I’m so destroyed – we have a daughter whose 3 and a son whose 5 – I love them so much – I don’t know what to do. I’m so tore up … I know I should talk to a counselor, I don’t know if I should talk to a divorce attorney… I don’t know what to do. Any advice ?