I’ve been going out with this guy for almost 4 months now and almost a week ago he accused me of cheating (this is not true) because he saw that i had taken outfit (very normal casual ones nothing like you know what) pictures on my phone. He said that he doesn’t believe that those are for a female friend (which they were because i was asking if the outfit is nice) and assumed that im cheating on him and talking to someone else.
More to the back story every argument we have ends with me getting blamed and accused of not loving him/ not caring enough for him. Ive asked multiple of times that if im making him feel unloved or “unwanted” and he has replied no to every single time putting his reactions to jealousy.
My question is : How do I make him understand or explain that his reactions are hurting me because he ends up saying hurtful and mean things when he’s angry?.. he says sorry after i tell him this hurts but does it again. I know it’s only been a short while that we’ve known each other but what is the best way to make him understand. I’ve tried multiple ways by explaining, mentioning details , saying what words hurt, suggesting that we take a couple of minutes off when we’re fighting but nothing is “making sense to him because he’s only jealous”.