I moved out of mine and my husband’s house and into my family’s spare home before thanksgiving. I had found out about my husbands 🌽 addiction while I was 3 months postpartum and having a 2 year old. We’re supposed to start counseling in January. He is here at the house I’m staying at all the time. He even spends the night most nights even though it’s the entire family sleeping in a queen sized bed and the old house has a king. I told him what I wanted was to see that he’s trying to change and trying to help me, as he never used to help me before. However, he comes here and doesn’t do much. My trash is piled up outside even though he swears he’ll take it. And I notice he keeps his phone in his pocket 24/7. Even while sleeping at night. Is it safe to say he isn’t ever going to change? Or am I wrong for ever moving out when we’re practically living the same life we lived, just in a new house? I moved out bc I wanted change