I (22f) am my bf’s (20m) first and we’ve been having fun exploring sex for him. He’s excited about so much, but he’s especially excited to try different positions, which I’ve been happy to explore with him. One position that I particularly like is being on top. I like the control and the ability to move in a way that feels the best for me. However, I can’t seem to do it in a way that also feels amazing for him. He has communicated that it feels better for him when he’s on top or in a different position where he is able to have more control, like doggie. Those positions are great for me too, but I’d love to really wow him while I’m on top. My go-to technique while on top is to move my hips and to kind of gyrate on his cock. Any tips for what else to try? Thanks!
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Reverse cowgirl so he can watch your butt! Or reaching back while you’re on top to play with his balls
My advice would be just show him how much you are enjoying it. Moaning. Play with yourself, your breasts etc. He’s got a great view from this position so give him a show. Talk to him and tell him how amazing it feels, how deep he’s going etc.
I don’t know that this has to be an either-or… sometimes one partner super loves something and the other is just OK with it, and vice versa. It’s the balance that ultimately matters.
Do it where he’s sitting in a couch or against a wall/headboard so he can be upright. Kisses, tiddies in face, the overall proximity make it 10000% hotter than when he’s on his back. Also makes it easier for him to hold your hips if he likes to have some control. Imo – cowgirl laying back 5/10, upright 9/10.
Honestly, he’ll be wowed no matter that you do.
Planting your feet flat and bouncing feels really good. You just need to find the rhythm
Reach down and play with his balls
Do it all! Move around and figure it all out. That is the fun part
You can look into kegel and pompoir. Being on top makes it easier to squeeze your vaginal muscles in sync with the riding movement for me, might be the case for you too! Dirty talk is good in whatever position too, but you can lean into more dominant stuff since you’re on top and you’re the one controlling the movement. I would also suggest trying to ride him with your feet flat on the mattress, in a way that takes all your weight off him and will also give you a different movement range. This might take a little practice because of balance and strength, but I would say most men really enjoy this. Good exploring for you two!
what my girl does that’s always exciting: loud and talks me through it in a dominant way almost every time. say anything and everything. one that gets me is “give me that nut baby”. change the tempo from fast to slow and sometimes just kinda sitting on my dick for more make out, riding just the tip for a while while squatting, grabbing my balls when riding and telling me to empty them. so yea mostly just alot of enthusiasm makes the experience so much better
I think up and down, in and out motion feels the best for guys on top. Thats the motion they normally do when they thrust and creates the most friction.
Honestly the best sex is selfish sex so if you orgasm first on top you can then finish him off with a quick up down.
You’ve already got the hip motion thing going on. Try dragging your tits across his chest towards his face, with a wicked smile on yours.
It very much depends on the guy and how sensitive his cock is.. grinding or gyration can be either too much/uncomfortable or too little dependent on the guy..
The in-out motion. Is by far the most common method to provide the correct stimulation for him.
If you haven’t tried it already, try squatting instead of kneeling. Either facing him or facing away and bounce up and down or pump your hips up and down whilst resting your hands on his shoulders or if facing backwards hold his legs. This way you can get a really good up and down. Motion on his cock and you can control the depth and speed.
For me it’s one of the sexiest positions there is as I can see my cock going in and out… and when she’s facing away, seeing that sexy ass bobbing up and down is a glorious sight, especially when she comes and the thighs start quivering…:-)
The best thing ever for me is when she does squats up and down on her feet with her knees spread out wide.
It’s all in the hips
That position is amazing. Use him, dont worry about making him feel good. Make yourself feel amazing.
Do the hard work of hip movements 🙁