(P.S yes i’ll bring my lube going forward but my main question was more like how i can get her to actually expand properly)
It’s a bit embarrassing having to write this but I gotta know… How can I (22M) loosen up this wonderful lady (25F) that I’ve been talking to lately…
For a bit of backstory, yesterday i went over and we watched some movies she moved my hands to certain places and things happened. I gave her all types of stimulation like fingering, rubbing the lady bean and even eating the peach till it leaks. But when push came to shove… there was no more room to push 🤨
I’ve always been above average so giving time to adjust has been nothing new but ever since i joined the r/gettingbigger subreddit and whatever I’ve grown past what I used to be and this is my first time experiencing it to this effect. If theres anything positive I’ll very much remember from this, in her exact words: “Im so sorry, this has never happened with other guys before but if anything take it as an ego boost?”
But it wasn’t an ego boost to me… if anything it feels like i might’ve fucked myself over by going from a big but manageable size into the territory of “yeah sorry this isn’t gonna work unless you play with me for like an hour”
If i had to describe the sensation, it was literally like trying to push my meat directly against my flat palm, like a wall. Except it hurt a bit if i tried to go any further because it would start bending a bit.
Is this something that can be remedied overtime with much longer foreplay? or are we perhaps sexually incompatible 🙁