So I (28M) and my wife (28FM) have always has amazing sex. For context I met her in college and she was supposed to be part of my roster buttt I ended up actually liking her. The feeling was mutually so we ended up dating. She’s a beautiful lady, beautiful soul and personality, family oriented, etc. I love her till death do us part. Just my type. Buttt I would be lying if I didn’t admit that our relationship started for sex. And it was PART of the reason we started dating. She’s a head master and she knows I love head. I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker per se because life is more than sex. But at the same time, she showed me in the beginning who she was and it did play a part. If I can put a number on it I’d say at LEAST 100 times out the year, no lie, she would offer me head. Now it’s at about 15. She’s so my type that if she never did it again, I would be ok, but I would be suffering or yearning for that feeling, u kno?
This is getting kinda long so moral of the story we talked about it over the years and she says she’ll do it more, and this might last 2 weeks and then she just kinda stops. It’s not enough for me. Now I wouldn’t say I’ll leave her because of it like I said earlier I’ll be OK. But it kinda makes me feel as if she isn’t idk honoring my wants and needs? Does anyone have any advice on how I should go about this? Do I continue to talk to her about it? Do I ask for it more? Put her on a schedule? lol or is it a lost cause. Lmk