Hi! So I’m not sure what to do. I love my boyfriend so much. We have been off and on since 15 (we broke up twice once for a year 1/3 once for 6 months) during the 6 month break u started talking to this guy M22. (My boyfriend was talking to multiple other people as well at this time) I never got physical with this guy, we were more friendly than anything. But I was using his phone and discovered a notes list of everything about this guy. His job, his lisence plate, his school, his major, where he wants to transfer. He’s (my bf) been trying to get a job at the exact same place my “ex” works. It made me feel so scared and ill when I saw that. I don’t know if I should unblock my ex and be like hey just do you know this is why I blocked/ ghosted you and my current boyfriend is like obsessed? idk idk. But then online I found his Reddit and he was posting under gay men and this same subreddit (I blocked him on my throwaway acc) saying he thinks he’s gay. I’m just so confused because then why are we together? He’s been with both men and woman, more woman than men. I just don’t know what to do. I love him. I’ve never been able to be with anyone else and I’m just so scared, confused, and hurt.