19F i’ve been dating this new guy since around 3 months now and i just feel like i’m doing something wrong when touching him
he has never had a partner before me, i did but i never had sex i pretty much did everything except penetration. the thing is he’s really different from my ex when it comes to preferences and i feel a little lost (my ex had very specific fetishes and i could easily get him off from stimulating the top but my bf says that hurts and doesn’t want me touching it)
for example we will start making out and and then clothes get off and then i’ll start rubbing him but i guess im not very good at it because after thirty seconds he’ll just go back to kissing and grinding on me.
he also doesn’t really let me focus on jerking him off and will quickly show me how but then try to touch me at the same time and then the position makes it hard for me to keep going and i can’t focus and such
we also had sex for the first time and tbh it didn’t feel like anything and he kinda just thrusted until he got tired and we kinda just gave up after and cuddled
what should i do? is he shy or am i just a noob at this… i just want to make him feel good and finish maybe