Hi all, I’m currently going through year three of a separation and hopefully just months until we are over the line. I have been paying ‘good faith’ alimony for years and recently cut her a check for a decent amount. I’m recently laid off but have been keeping my financial obligations in focus even ahead of schedule and more generous than our agreed upon MSA. Ok so last night I got an overdraft warning because my ex deposited a second lump sum check on 12/24 when we had both agreed she would do so later in January when I juggle my finances and assess the potential tax bomb. What do I do here? Recently we have been pretty communicative and not fighting. I know she gets a little more bold when she has a new boyfriend which she does (all good) but this is out of character and just so reckless and inconsiderate from her. She has a full time job and is part of a trust fund and I have absolutely shit. I don’t get it